Lately, I've Been Struggling With This...

“Is it even worth my time?”
“Am I making enough progress?”
“Do people even care about what I have to say?”
“Why does it feel like I’m moving backwards?”

Lately, those thoughts have been circling in my mind. And if you’ve ever poured your heart into something you care about, I’m sure you’ve been there too.

As many of you know, I’m a dating coach. I help people navigate love, heartbreak, relationships, and the complicated in-betweens. I share insights and reminders meant to feel like a breath of fresh air in a world flooded with noise. I want my words to land like a warm hug, to be the thing someone needed to hear on a hard day.

But lately, I’ve felt… stuck. My content isn’t reaching as many people as it used to. The algorithm doesn’t favor it. And while I don’t create for the numbers, I’d be lying if I said it didn’t sting. Not because I’m chasing vanity metrics, but because I want these messages to reach the people who need them. Sometimes I wonder:
Maybe people are tired of hearing from me.
Maybe I’m too young to be giving advice.
Maybe I’m not good enough.

But then, a message lands in my inbox.
A heartfelt thank you.
A story of someone who felt seen by my words.
A reminder that this is why I do what I do.

And that’s when I remember, I’m not wasting my time. Even if a post only reaches one person, and that one person feels less alone because of it, I’ve done my job.

We’ve been taught to believe that success looks like fame, numbers, and followers. And I’ve found myself dangerously close to falling for that lie. But I’m calling it out now, because that’s not my truth.

To me, success is going to bed at night with a full heart. It’s knowing that what I put into the world came from love, from intention, from truth. That’s what matters.

So when the doubts creep in, I ground myself in gratitude. I think of all the kind souls who’ve left sweet comments. I reflect on how far I’ve come. I remind myself that growth isn’t always visible, but it’s always happening.

We can’t measure our worth by algorithms or likes. The real measure is how we show up, how we love, and how we live. And in that way, I know I’m exactly where I’m meant to be.

👉 Book a discovery call with me. You deserve love that feels safe, reciprocal, and fulfilling. Let’s take the first step together. 💛

If this resonated with you and you’re ready to step into a healthier, more aligned love life, visit my website for more resources, coaching options, and support on your journey.

Let’s create the love life you truly deserve. 💕

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